The reason why my previous relationship never worked!

Hello my sweet readers! I am happy that you are here today to read my blog. Just like my other blogs which are dear and important to me, this one is just amazing. 

Don’t worry, I am not going to give you romantic relationship advice, let me keep that for some other time πŸ˜‰ (I am quite the expert I must say). Today, I would like to talk to you about the relationship that you have with your dreams.

I was talking to my amazing friend the other day and she was telling me about her great goals she had in mind. I always get super real with her because she is my friend and because I care about other people’s dreams and happiness (why else would I blog, right…?!).

I told her that you have a relationship with your goals and dreams. In every relationship, whatever it is, business, with your lover, with your friends, with your family or anyyyy relationship. If you want to make it work, you better start pulling your weight to meet them halfway. You give all you can in a friendship, and I give all I can. Being genuine, supportive, honest and loyal towards each other. It’s about taking care of each other and pick up the phone to see how they are doing. That is what matters and what counts in relationships.

ALSO the one with your dreams, you have got to make a few steps towards it for it to move towards you. If you sit there and think that it will come to you one day out of nowhere, then forget it! Your dreams and goals will never know when you are ready unless you make the first step, because when you do you set things in motion. The o soooo lovely Universe will start doing it’s work.

“Aaah, look at her” said the Universe, “she is ready to make her dreams come true, let me start doing my work”. And she lived happily ever after.

Dreams are gift we gave to ourselves long time ago. It’s really important to look after them, polish them, evaluate, take action, and promise ourselves that we will make it happen, we will make our dreams come true. 

My friend smiled, that is so true Maani, I have to start doing something instead of waiting for a perfect plan.

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My birthday dialog

Yesterday I was blessed to celebrate my birthday!

Every year when it’s my birthday I start freaking out a little bit. Why? Because I always wonder how far I have come in life and what else I have ahead of me. Sometimes I get a bit disappointed because I “think” that what I have done in life is not good enough.

Such as yesterday. 1st of May, the perfect birthday date if you ask me… I was happy and calm all day, and then BOOM it hit me. What have I done with my life so far?! Oh no, here it is AGAIN, the standard dialog I have with myself every birthday and I was not ready for it.

The night before I had a great idea, I was going to look for images and quotes that can lift my spirit up when I feel down or when my mind wants to have another dialog with my mind (call me crazy, but we all do that!). It is very tiring and I am 100% sure that you agree with me! Yea? Not only quotes and images, but I wanted to meditate more and do more of what I love everyday! Doesn’t matter how small the task is, as long as I do something today that will improve my tomorrow.

I got scared, I am not going to lie, I am keeping it real!!! But you know, better be aware of something then trying to hide it to escape your true feelings.

SO….

I will do this little experiment for 21 days. Do you want to join me?

Everyday when I wake up I will give my thanks to the Universe (I already do this every morning). I want to not only say ‘thank you’ but FEEL the gratitude. This will be my morningΒ meditation. So, 10 – 15 minutes meditation before getting out of bed giving my gratitude and think of something I want to achieve.

I will then write down any beautiful thoughts in a journal that I will put next to my bed. This should only take 5 – 10 minutes.

I will put a quote as my screensaver on my phone that encourages me, so whenever I feel negative I will look at my phone and focus on my screensaver. Remind myself that all is well.

Last but not least, I have learned this from the book: The Universe Has Your Back, to look at everything from a loving point of view instead of fearing a situation!

Breath in and out, exercise, read something positive every day, and do what you love. My rules as of today.

1st of May is always a good day!

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I was insecureΒ 

My dear followers!!!

Last week I was in a bit of a sad situation. I made a video and I’ve put it online on my YouTube channel: Maanitalk (click here to watch the video that I am talking about.)

I was so excited about it, and I was frankly happy with what I have spoken about. I was proud of myself because after so many times of recording, I thought to myself I will record one more time and this time I will get it right!! There is no way I will stop now… And I DID, it was much better than the other recorded videos.

I posted my video online, on Facebook, on my Instagram and on my YouTube channel. I was so happy to get it out there. However, I did not get enough views, and it did not reach enough people. It made me really sad and it gave me the feeling of giving up what I was doing. The fear of failure and looking stupid and ridiculous came into my mind. It slipped in there and I felt so insecure!!!

I felt embarrassed in front of my fiance, my family and everyone who knows how badly I want this to work. I have let this insecurity take the good out of me, I was in it for a few hours. Even at the dinner table, I felt like crying. Then I thought to myself, NO, NO, NOOOOO!!! I will not stop doing this, I am not going to stop blogging, vlogging or not be active on social media just because I did not get what I want.

The reason why I am doing this is because I love to do it, and whether enough people want to watch and follow or not that is non of my concern. Despite of whatever views and number there are on your social media. IT IS the satisfaction I get out of it when I finish writing a blog or when I am done with recording a video. The happiness I get out of this when I read a book and gain so much knowledge or when I am improving my thoughts, habits and behavior on a daily basis! That is what counts and nothing else.

Moral of my story is, do not give up because you are not there where you want to be yet. It takes some time, consistency and determination to keep on going before you reach the top. It is not always nice to see that you are not reaching enough people, but when you keep on going, you will get there!

I will be vlogging and blogging for a very very veryyyyy long time. There is more than enough in me to get me going for another lifetime.

Keep believing in yourself!

Believe in yourself. Inspirational quote on colorful spray paint

Oldie but Goldie

I saw a video of a well known guru the other day on Facebook.

He was talking about how everything that is happening around you is actually happening within you. When you look at someone in front of you, you see him/her from within. When you feel something about a certain person or situation, the feeling is from within. The pain, fear, happiness, peace, joy and everything in between all happens within you, therefore what ever you see on the outside, you feel it from the inside first!

It is an emotion that tells you how you think about something in front of you or about a situation you are in. For me this means that whatever I am feeling from the inside will project to the outside world. Thus, if I feel happy and calm, everything I perceive will look like that!

To conclude, if I want to change my outer world, I have to change my inner world! Oldie but goldie!!!

I’m putting my phone and laptop aside to take a journey to my inner world with some meditation.

All is well. Life is good. God is great

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New YouTube Video: How to overcome anything in life!

Hello dear friends!

I have uploaded a new YouTube video about: How to overcome anything in life!

Click here to be directed to my YouTube Channel, and while you are at it, feel free to subscribe to stay updated on all the motivational and inspirational videos to come.

Thank you all!!!

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